One of my bestfriends Jacob took his own life yesterday, He and my neighbor Drew have always been friends scince they were young and hung out every friday after school to smoke up and enjoy life. It really hit us hard to realize that we wont be able to enjoy 4/20 without our bestfriend. Im asking for everyones help to upvote this to 420 in memory of Jake because it was his favorite holiday and it will never be the same without him. Id also like to show this to Drew in hopes it will raise his spirit knowing Jacob is being honored by doing something he loved. Help us reconize Suicide Awarness on this site because just listening to someone can go along way....

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Tue, 04/05/2011 - 12:54pm
pittsteel9 Says:

We will always love you man, I dedicate this next bowl to you

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 9:57am
peenackle Says:

TO ANYONE WHO NEEDS HELP,
There's a lot of organizations and just people out there to help, listen, do whatever you need. You're never alone and there's always someone out there that's going through the exact same things.
I was born with depression and attempted suicide 29 times in my life and it's 2 years later and people tell me that they saw me yesterday walking around with a sign that said "SMILE." It gets better. There'll be bad times and good times and everything moves on and everything changes whether it's good or bad and that's just life and things are okay that way.

So if anyone is contemplating suicide or knows someone who is contemplating suicide, please talk to someone, please.
These are a few things that might help.

www.givesmehope.com
www.twloha.com
www.operationbeautiful.com
1-800-SUICIDE

The suicide hotline is open to anyone 24/7, they ARE helpful (I have friends who have called), there's no police coming to your door unlike when you tell a therapist or the government knows, it is completely discreet and no one will judge you.
Please call, there's nothing to lose.

And finally, I'm sorry for your loss. I can't pretend I know what you're going through but losing someone is always hard and you always have people there for you. Keep your head, believe in hope, and smile once in a while please.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 12:05pm
xBadger Says:

29 times? Holy shit, you suck at killing yourself.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 4:26pm
T-Colee Says:
 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 7:53pm
blunty22 Says:

whoever you are, you should rly just go fuck yourself ASSSHOLEEE!!!!

 
 
Mon, 04/18/2011 - 7:47am
babyjay Says:

xbadger- you suck at living.
the point of life is to live love and learn.
Not down people.
You're no stoner in my world.
You sound more like a crack head with no rockk to burn.

 
 
Mon, 04/18/2011 - 11:35am

omfg. i cant even believe you said that. asshole!

 
 
Mon, 04/18/2011 - 4:07pm

how the fuck did xBadgers post get 26 upvotes? like seriously? i know you were probably just trying to be funny but sucicide is NOT the right place for that... and 26 people upvoted that? that makes me sick

 
 
Mon, 04/18/2011 - 8:20pm
AlexT420 Says:

Hey everyone, I know she asked for 420 votes, but let's try to get it 1,420, for her, her family, her friends and for Jake. We're already half-way there! :DD

 
 
Tue, 04/19/2011 - 12:33am

no disrespect to peenackle but that was funny XD

 
 
Wed, 05/04/2011 - 12:59pm

that was totally inappropriate and mean. youre a douchebag.

 
 
Wed, 04/20/2011 - 7:59pm

Any friend of jake's is a friend of mine. Idk who wrote this, but you have no idea how much it meant to me to see this on 4/20 and know that we're all dedicating today to him. I miss him so much. We all do. Today we should have been at cherry street park smoking with him till we couldn't see anymore. RIP jake, there's not one day I don't think about you<3

 
 
Tue, 04/05/2011 - 12:55pm
bud2.0 Says:

that sucks man, hes smokin with bob marley now. hes good. dont worry bout it,
hes high as a mothafucker

 
 
Sat, 04/09/2011 - 1:06pm

Might be hard to imagine but it's not fair to label all stoners with one outlook. We couldn't possibly know what was going on in his life.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 3:00am

And you don't know what that persons been through in their lifetime

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 11:41pm

Woops I didn't know he already said that lol

 
 
Mon, 04/18/2011 - 4:34pm

Stoopid Head!

By the way... Groovy shirt

 
 
Tue, 04/19/2011 - 7:35pm

Thank you =) I got it on hippieshop.com they have really cool shirts. And I've always wanted to bring back the word groovy but I always forget to say it lol

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 3:14am
 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 11:07am
Chuckee Says:

"Not tryin ta be an asshole"-totally failed at that. And i guess your not a stoner cuz stoners arent douchebags.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 11:29am

WHOA im the biggest ass hole/ stoner I know and i know alot of ppl lol
weed doesnt make u a nice person it just enhances ur personality to its limits.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 7:58pm
jsilk8492 Says:

lol I like how this guy is defending his asshole nish

 
 
Mon, 04/18/2011 - 1:38am
 
 
Mon, 04/18/2011 - 8:53pm

Haha I learned early that's who I am so I might as well embrace it. Better than a lot of ppl out here faking personalities.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 2:37am
McBeCreezy Says:

yeah dude, his bro took his own life. Now isn't the time to nit pick over the definition of a stoner. I was just talking with my best friend earlier about his friend that killed himself. Sometimes there's nothing you really can do. And sometimes, the only thing that takes away the pain for a second is a bong rip with someone's name on it.

 
 
Mon, 04/18/2011 - 4:42pm

he's in a big ass circle of stoners getting a blunt from bob marley and passing it to john lennon <3

RIP mhan

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 2:41am
AlexT420 Says:

May the lord bless his soul, I hope he has made it back to home. : ))

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 3:20am
meowmeow96 Says:

I feel you, my bestfriend was Jake and he had to move away and for a while to Michigan and Im so scared something like this will happen to him. <3

 
 
Mon, 04/18/2011 - 3:09am
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Sun, 04/17/2011 - 3:24am

ill dedicate all of my 4/20 smoke sesh's to him bro

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 3:53am
Hempire Says:

This is why pot-heads are awesome, we all support each other and there is no hate at all. If this was put up anywhere else it would have gotten disliked and have some people bitching about it. But here every vote was a vote up and everyone is supporting him. This is proof that weed can end all war and hate in the world.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 3:55am

I meant to upvote.sorry bro. cheer uuuuppppp

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 4:04am
 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 4:05am
irocknight Says:

dude i feel ya, and just know he's in a better place living a better life. you need to stay strong and be there for your other friend. we all haev your back on this and we love you. RIP Jake.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 4:29am

I didn't know Jake but I am good friends with people who did, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope he is in a better place now and that he knows how much he is loved and missed.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 4:54am

we are all one big family and you know we all feel your pain
RIP Jake , his presence will always be remembered
I dedicate my 420 holiday to you and all your friends who love you
hope your smokin a fatty with biggy , tupac , Jesus , and mr cobain
xoxox

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 5:24am
Loverofham Says:

My best friend did the same thing in 1987.. You never forget them. Hang in there.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 6:10am

I bet they havn't forgotten about u either.

Peace an love man

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 6:28am

sorry about your loss man. things will get better. smile when you toke for him on wednesday:)

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 7:19am
tokeNskier Says:

i feel ya my buddy just died a week ago, this was his favorite day too. Everything happends for a reason bro just keep ya head high.... and your body

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 7:31am

i know how you feel ive had 2 friends take their lifes purposly and lost a few others and im only 20 :/

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 7:33am

Rest In Paradise Jake! This next bowl is for you.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 7:39am
Orpheus Says:

My condolences. This bowl's for Jake!

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 7:51am

To the guy who said "not trying to be an asshole", you are being an asshole bro. Condolences to you, you're boy Drew, and Jake's fam. This is the first highDEA i read this morning, and now I'm rolling a vanilla dutch, filled with vanilla kush, and I'm blowing it down for Jake. God bless the dead, peace and keep it 100

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 8:49am

makes me all mushy inside seeing this outpouring of love and support
condolences to you and his family
<3

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 9:54pm
yoinkie Says:

I hate to say it, but agreed. Sorry for your loss.

 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 9:13am
 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 9:18am
ooohemily Says:
 
 
Sun, 04/17/2011 - 10:02am
McBeCreezy Says:

just because he took his own life doesn't mean he shouldn't be missed. If people thought that they could just kill themselves and have no one give a flying fuck suicide would happen far more than it already does.
And often times, the only thing stopping someone is just a smile, or a wave from a random person. so while you're smoking your buds and not upvoting, the rest of us will be in the REAL world where you know, people have feelings and shit.