My boyfriend won't smoke weed :(
I need ideas to get my boyfriend to smoke weed. My boyfriend is known as "straight-edge" and if you do not know what that is, it is when you DO NOT smoke weed, cigarettes, or take ANY drugs. It is really a bummer on my part and he knows I smoke weed. Today we were on the phone and he always complains about how none of his other friends want to hang out with him as much because they smoke weed and he doesnt. So they go off and get high. He asked me if I thought he should smoke weed and I said yes because he is way too uptight and there are no negative side effects from smoking weed. Then he got defensive because he is straight edge. He looks down upon weed. Any ideas on things I can do or say to get him to smoke.
He smoked once before in eighth grade and it was his first time. He smoked a bowl. He didnt like it, I told him if he smoked with me he would like it because he would not get too high. He said no. God, he is such a downer! Ideas please!!
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You could try to casually do it... like one night when you are hanging out just start to toke up. Maybe he'll see how awesome it is and he'll want to try.
Me personally, I am thankful that my husband doesn't like to smoke because then there is more weed for me and I dont have to share : )
Get all of the best things to enjoy while high, so it's like a greatest hits sort of a deal. Hahaha...greatest hits.
if he doesnt want to, then dont force him
....but if you really want to.....sexual favors always work
once hes high make him listen to his favorite kind of music, no matter what it is, through headphones and then take him to get his favorite food.
i agree with this one :] make it as memorable as possible...but in a good way
Um...get a new boyfriend. Duh.
Dump him. I'm sure you can find another boy who does. I love that my girlfriend and I smoke together, it is better than if she hated that I smoked and tried to hide my weed all the time.
But if you still want to keep him, just have him smoke and watch a funny movie. It will be good to slowly ease him into it. Plus I saw a guy with straight edge tattoos on his hands and arms at my medical cannabis clinic the other day, he'll grow out of it.
Call me!!!
ya i'm gunna have to agree with the other ppl tell him no sex and till he blazes he'll start smoking real quick or dump him and go find a stoner bf who smokes and isn't gunna get all mad and look down upon ppl who do stuff he doesn't also get on the internet and go to norml and other places like that and get all kinds of info about weed and be like look how beneficial it is
ps. straight edge is pretty fucking gay so i would dump his ass
I went through a phase kinda like that. I didn't flaunt that whole straight edge X's on your hand bullshit but I think he just needs time. Some people just dont like it, but if it was his first time he probably didnt even get high. I don't think anyone could actually get baked and not like it.
spike his brownies.
took my idea, but yea make him brownies saying sorry for smoking weed and being generally awesomer than you
just let him kno how much it would mean to you if he just gave it one chance, and he has no idea what he's missin out on
Tell him you will give him a blow job when he is high. If that doesn't work dump him and get with somebody who isn't crazy. If he is super uptight and unaccepting of pot that probably translates in other areas of his life and why would you want to be with someone who doesn't like the best things in life.
ya tell him you will bang him if he rips a bowl
honestly if he doesnt want to dont try and make him. it will only turn on you and make things between you guys bad. he tried it once and didnt like it, it might not have been cause he was too high, he just might not of liked the feeling. so yea if he doesnt want to dont force him. and if he has an issue with you smoking it maybe talk to him about that and just smoke on occasion.
I completely feel you on this situation. It's no matter how much you try to explain that there is nothing wrong with it, it further makes the fight worse. Everyone needs to just get over it. There is nothing wrong with smoking.
I don't understand how a straightedge person and a non-SE person could ever date...don't they look down on sex, too?
4:21...best minute of my life!
Make weed brownies and give him one :D
ask him specifically why he doesn't want to smoke weed, then google why smoking weed is actually good.
when you look at the facts, no one can say no to a bowl :]
Um..how old are you? Just curious.
ps. Dump his ass. :)
have you checked to see if his balls have dropped yet? im assuming they havnt so just put acid in his drink when he doesnt know. that way, his balls will drop hell go through an experience and realize it wont even do the slightest damage. hell then realize that other experiences will be exactly like this one and hell learn not to be such a vagina in the future
I used to be strait edge... Worst 18 years of my life hahaha
buuuutttt don't push him to much I used to hate when my friends pressured me to smoke,
just ask him to blaze with you and tell him it'll stay between you and him and if he still doesn't like it then just dont bug him about it, good luck
honestly it sounds like you dont like the guy very much, why are you even with him if he brings you down thats not right
Definitely keep pushing the "Do it with just me" thing. You should tell him how relaxed it would make the two of you. If a guy doesn't want to be high and relaxed with his girl friend, whom I assume he likes to hook up with, then he is fucking stupid.
put it in a cookie or something he likes and let him find out for himself.
Your boyfriend probably listens to good music haha
i think in pineaplle express the one dude says
it makes food taste better
it makes shitty movies better
it makes sex better(really emphasize this one....say it like...alot louder that everything else)
personally though...i would just say it's not crack
its the least drug drug there is! its even the most base! its a plant!
I hate straight edge people.
They annoy me greatly.
But turning one sounds like lots of fun.
Just be persistent about it and get high around him and let him see how much of a good time you are having and he is not. That might do it.
Also tell him I said he's a little bitch. :)
I had a conversation like this once, when debating about my use of cannabis:
Other Person: I don't do drugs!! I'm abstinent!!
Me: Oh, sure you do.
Other: No! I follow the Word of Wisdom!
Me: OK...and what happens when you don't go to church?
Other: I need to go to church!
Me: What happens if you don't?
Other: I feel...distressed, out of touch with God.
Me: Oh, you mean sort of like...an addict?
Other: Shut up!
Me: The difference is this--Without herb I can function, I can live, I can have a good time, etc. Sure it's great to have and I love it, but if it's not here I deal with it because I know there's more to life. If you don't go to church, all hell breaks loose. So who's really addicted to what here?
It's one thing to make a choice to do or not do a certain thing, no matter even what that thing is or why, and what label somebody chooses to put on that decision. Those are all personal choices. But an idea is a mind-altering drug too, because ideas can make a person do things he or she wouldn't ordinarily do _just like_ any physical drug. So if your boyfriend is really serious that he doesn't do drugs, he'll have to let go of all beliefs, all thoughts, etc.
I hope that makes sense...
hahaha thats genius.
dude.... youre fucking awesome haha
uhhhhhhh lure him with yur sexualty if yur uptight about that just be casual about it connect w/ him then casually mention it this worked when my gf did it 2 me and by the way its nice 2 see some girls on this sight
A) tell him it makes sex better and if that doesn't work
B) dump his assss
just say if he doesnt smoke then there is no sex, not even kissing or hugging till he does lol. 2 things will happen, he will eigher A) Smoke with u lol or 2) Break it off lol either way ur still gettin high :)
Really, i used to be staight edge too, so i can kinda see from his point of veiw. But i never looked down on smoking, he sounds kinda like a dick.
Regardless, pressuring him into doing it is just going push him further away. Offer it to him, tell him the benefits and reasons to smoke, but don't force him to or single him out because hes not smoking. He'll eventually smoke, jst be patient. Offer it as a stress relief, thats the most convincing way.
If he doesn't want to smoke, he doesn't have to smoke. I always have friends in the circle that don't smoke, but they still chill and watch us get super baked. Just don't push him or make him hit it. I don't think anyone should feel uncomfortable around weed, but i respect someones opinion of they do. If he doesnt want to be around it, well thats another story. but just do whatever makes you both happy. if you wanna smoke weed, by all means, happy toking. but opinions are personal, and everyones entitled to do whatever they please.
my friend used to be all straight edge then i guess hanging around the smoke so much made her into a frequent smoker... idk i agree with them spike his brownies make him a weed tea itll be great get like 2 grams of that og kush n make sum kush coca n buy more shit n get brownie mix...
my friend used to be all straight edge then i guess hanging around the smoke so much made her into a frequent smoker... idk i agree with them spike his brownies make him a weed tea itll be great get like 2 grams of that og kush n make sum kush coca n buy more shit n get brownie mix...
my friend used to be all straight edge then i guess hanging around the smoke so much made her into a frequent smoker... idk i agree with them spike his brownies make him a weed tea itll be great get like 2 grams of that og kush n make sum kush coca n buy more shit n get brownie mix...
my friend used to be all straight edge then i guess hanging around the smoke so much made her into a frequent smoker... idk i agree with them spike his brownies make him a weed tea itll be great get like 2 grams of that og kush n make sum kush coca n buy more shit n get brownie mix...
sneek him a special brownie or give him a thc lolipop or sumthing of that sort
sneek him a special brownie or give him a thc lolipop or sumthing of that sort
Worst boyfriend ever.
hahahahaha
I once had a boyfriend like that he didn't drink or smoke bud. In the beginning he said me smoking weed was ok to do around him then it got to him not wanting me to smoke anymore but now i have a boyfriend who like to smoke just as much as me if not more.
i like how not one comment will someone hit on you lol
let him be straight edge then, you wanting to convince him to smoke is like him pressuring you to quit. its a personal choice ife you guys can't make the differences work then you split.
you should call me sometime... im single haha...
i dated a guy who was straight-edge.
they are really judgmental people who will probably NEVER smoke weed, drink, smoke cigarettes, or anything. this is because of WHY they are straight-edge. it's one thing to refrain from drinking, or cigarettes, whatever, but when you abstain from ALL substances, it shows that you are
1) scared
2) judgmental
3) closed-minded
in fact, mine only smoked cigars because he was cuban and his family was into them. he thinks his ex girlfriend from when he was 14 died from weed, but this is impossible. you can't smoke too much and OD on weed, lol.
and you don't even inhale cigar smoke, what a waste!
from woman to fellow woman, get rid of him and find a guy who's into weed. your relationship will be so much better. and he will find an equally afraid, judgmental woman to not smoke with and probably fight with every day for the rest of his miserable life.
cheers!
love love.